{"id":1769,"date":"2020-09-26T13:31:25","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T13:31:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/?p=1769"},"modified":"2021-01-15T23:50:48","modified_gmt":"2021-01-15T23:50:48","slug":"hoe-vind-je-de-moed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-vind-je-de-moed\/","title":{"rendered":"How can you find the courage?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3428\" src=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1.jpg\" alt=\"Hoe kan je de moed vinden\" width=\"1440\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-1024x398.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-16x6.jpg 16w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-260x101.jpg 260w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-50x19.jpg 50w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/ASSE-15-Hoe-kan-je-de-moed-vinden-1-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Honesty is an important key in research, especially in self-examination. Research is the basis of progress. Denial is the main obstacle to self-examination. And yet many people excel at denial. \"Denial is a river in Egypt\" is the favourite quote of New York judge Judy Scheindlin, who presents a successful television program as Judge Judy. The bottom line is that denial is something that is of little use to you. But there is quite a bit of denial in the world. Out of fear. Not to have to do anything about it. Or for fear that worse is yet to come.\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>Courage method:<\/strong><\/p><p>Look at the important areas in your life: Relationship, Work, Money, Health, Leisure, Family &amp; Appearance.<\/p>\r\n<p>And watch for alarms of denial:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\r\n<li>We just have to wait for it to go.<\/li>\r\n<li>I need to take this to relax.<\/li>\r\n<li>I really only do this on weekends.<\/li>\r\n<li>I cannot help it.<\/li>\r\n<li>He only does that when he's been drinking.<\/li>\r\n<li>It's not for me to say that.<\/li>\r\n<li>I can't care less.\u00a0<\/li>\r\n<li>That's today's youth.<\/li>\r\n<li>It's all I have.<\/li>\r\n<li>She's just doing that to get attention.<\/li>\r\n<\/ul><p class=\"is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow translation-block\">\u201cChange is the growth law of life. Whoever sticks to the past or the present will miss the future. \u201d - Barack Obama, 44th President of the US.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Honesty is an important key in research, especially in self-examination. Research is the basis of progress. Denial is the main obstacle to self-examination. 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