{"id":1810,"date":"2020-09-26T15:10:20","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T15:10:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/?p=1810"},"modified":"2023-04-10T09:40:07","modified_gmt":"2023-04-10T09:40:07","slug":"hoe-laat-je-luisteren-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-laat-je-luisteren-2\/","title":{"rendered":"How can you make them listen?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3556\" src=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1.jpg\" alt=\"Hoe kan je laten luisteren\" width=\"1440\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-1024x398.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-16x6.jpg 16w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-260x101.jpg 260w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-50x19.jpg 50w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-6-Hoe-kan-je-laten-luisteren-1-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Why would anyone want to listen to you? Good reasons are needed for this. Here are the five best.<\/p><p><strong>The argument of the relationship. <\/strong>People will listen to you if someone else tells them to listen to you. For example someone they trust and admire. Doctor Philip McGraw immediately got all the attention of the American public when Oprah Winfrey said that what Doctor Phil was worth it. He had the degrees, he had the talent, but more than that it was the warm recommendation by Oprah that launched his career.\u00a0 <strong>The argument of insight. <\/strong>Because what you have to say has value or can contribute something to a different human life. That people can improve their financial-, health- or other situation by what you have to say. <strong>The argument of success. <\/strong>What have you done? And how well did you do that? What have you achieved with that? The more you have realized, the more I will be willing to open up to you.\u00a0<strong>The argument ability. <\/strong>For what you can. Those who perform at a high level are respected. Those who are respected receive attention.\u00a0<strong>The argument of sacrifice. <\/strong>How you have lived will determine the extent to which people listen to you. Mother Teresa was a poor teacher from Albania, but because she led a life centred on others, poverty, and outreach. Leaders of government and heads of state were inclined to seek her advice.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why would anyone want to listen to you? Good reasons are needed for this. Here are the five best. The argument of the relationship. 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