{"id":1855,"date":"2020-09-26T15:50:56","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T15:50:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/?p=1855"},"modified":"2023-04-10T09:42:03","modified_gmt":"2023-04-10T09:42:03","slug":"hoe-controleer-je-je-emoties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-controleer-je-je-emoties\/","title":{"rendered":"How can you control your emotions?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3495\" src=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1.jpg\" alt=\"Hoe kan je emoties controleren\" width=\"1440\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-1024x398.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-16x6.jpg 16w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-260x101.jpg 260w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-50x19.jpg 50w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/COMM-27-Hoe-kan-je-je-emoties-controleren-1-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>It's like this: emotions are habits, you can change habits, as your habits change, you change your life. That is the essence of it Emotional Intelligence, the worldwide bestseller by psychologist Daniel Coleman. It is not the emotions themselves that we have to get rid of, he believes, but their inconvenient effects in certain situations. Impulsivity is the biggest culprit\naccording to Coleman's standard work. Uncontrolled and unfocused floating on feeling is not only harmful to the environment, but also to your deepest self. Self-control, on the one hand, and pity on the other hand, are the ideal techniques for the uninhibited and undirected effects of emotions. In addition motivation and perseverance are essential to avoid the useless and unpleasantness of emotions. Plus: a good dose of positive thoughts. Coleman has clinically proven that positivity is not only a pleasant way to socialize, but also the most direct way to effective results.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It's like this: emotions are habits, you can change habits, as your habits change, you change your life. That is the essence of it Emotional Intelligence, the worldwide bestseller by psychologist [\u2026]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2871,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,32],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1855","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-communicatietraining","category-reputatiemanagent"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Hoe controleer je je emoties? | Jo De Poorter<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-controleer-je-je-emoties\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Hoe controleer je je emoties? | Jo De Poorter\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Het zit zo: emoties zijn gewoontes, gewoontes kun je veranderen, als je gewoontes verandert, verander je je leven. 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