{"id":1869,"date":"2020-09-26T19:56:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T19:56:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/?p=1869"},"modified":"2021-01-11T21:54:56","modified_gmt":"2021-01-11T21:54:56","slug":"hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you have a tough conversation?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3795\" src=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1.jpg\" alt=\"Hoe voer je een moeilijk gesprek\" width=\"1440\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-1024x398.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-16x6.jpg 16w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-260x101.jpg 260w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-50x19.jpg 50w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-2-Hoe-voer-je-een-moeilijk-gesprek-1-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Clarity for everything. Immediately say what it is about. Don't make it prettier\nthan it is and be clear. Explain reason, cause, context, or problem. Prepare\nfor it. You should be able to explain what you want in two to three sentences. Clarify and explain. Leave the other person room to respond and let off steam. Listen. Really listen. Look them in the eyes. Nod. Rephrase what the other says. Acknowledge pain or problem. Don't get comforting right away. Show understanding. Suggest an action. Connect an act, plan and follow-up to the conversation. And then live up to it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Clarity for everything. Immediately say what it is about. Don't make it prettier than it is and be clear. Explain reason, cause, context, or problem. Prepare for it. 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