{"id":1875,"date":"2020-09-26T19:59:17","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T19:59:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/?p=1875"},"modified":"2021-01-11T21:52:31","modified_gmt":"2021-01-11T21:52:31","slug":"hoe-wijs-je-krachtdadig-maar-beleefd-af","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-wijs-je-krachtdadig-maar-beleefd-af\/","title":{"rendered":"How to finish conversation?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3783\" src=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1.jpg\" alt=\"Krachtdadig afwijzen\" width=\"1440\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-1024x398.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-16x6.jpg 16w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-260x101.jpg 260w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-50x19.jpg 50w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-5-krachtdadig-afwijzen-1-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/>How long do you have to continue a conversation when it runs out? What is polite? What is appropriate? It's always good to stay NICE, an American acronym that guarantees a perfect exit.\u00a0<strong>N: Name<\/strong>The most beautiful word in our language is the sound of our own name. Use the name of your conversation partner to proceed to the conclusion. Say: 'Anne ...' \u00a0<strong>I: Interest.<\/strong>Zoom in on your genuine interest and what really fascinated you about the conversation\nor the person. State it explicitly and thank him or her for it. Say:  \u2018'Anne. It was very interesting to learn all the things that are involved in curtain suspension systems. A person does not think about that when you see let your curtain down. ' \u2018\u00a0<strong>C: conclusie.<\/strong> Finish the conversation with a decision. Speak honestly but diplomatically what your plans are or what you want to do. Say:  \"I want to say goodbye to some people I haven't seen in a long time.\" Say: \"There's one more person I need to talk to before the night is over.\"\u00a0<strong>E: Exit.<\/strong>Leave in a firm but pleasant way. Shake a hand or touch the upper or lower arm. If it was very casual, you can also give a kiss. Say: \u201cI hope we can meet again at the next opportunity. It was nice. Bye.'<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hoe lang moet je doorgaan met een gesprek als het op is? Wat is beleefd? Wat is gepast? 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