{"id":1908,"date":"2020-09-26T20:22:48","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T20:22:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/?p=1908"},"modified":"2021-01-15T19:26:57","modified_gmt":"2021-01-15T19:26:57","slug":"hoe-verander-je-anderen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/en\/hoe-verander-je-anderen\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you change others?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3734\" src=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1.jpg\" alt=\"Andere veranderen\" width=\"1440\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-300x117.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-1024x398.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-768x299.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-16x6.jpg 16w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-260x101.jpg 260w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-50x19.jpg 50w, https:\/\/jodepoorter.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/LEID-20-anderen-veranderen-1-150x58.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>That is not possible, unfortunately. But the good news is that you can change yourself.\nMany people go out of their way to try and change others, in the hope that it will make them happier. That rarely or never succeeds. And it certainly doesn't make them happier. Not even when we try to change our children. We often talk and reason with them in hopes of making them think better, but they learn most, not from what we say, but from what we do. By showing what we do ourselves. By showing how we positively chance ourselves. Mahatma  Gandhi said: ,,change the world, start with yourself.\u2019\u2019 And he did. He changed himself, the world and the course of history.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That is not possible, unfortunately. 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