How are you interesting?

Be interested yourself first and only then try to be interesting yourself. The former is a lot more effective than the latter. Laugh at yourself. Put yourself or the situation into perspective. Smile. Learn from good and bad experiences, from successes and setbacks. Try out as many different things as you can, take risks and take the time to learn from each victory and defeat. Try to set yourself a goal for every social or professional meeting. In principle, there is something to learn from everyone and everywhere. Find it and take it with you. Make it a game. It is more fun and healthier than filling yourself with drinks or food. Try to connect. Look for common ground. Mutual interests. Everyone has parents, apart from a few orphans, everyone takes a holiday, sleeps, eats, pays taxes. There is always something to connect with. Do it. Get better at it. Reap the benefits.