How do you survive parties and receptions?

Adèle Scheele gives in her book Skills for Success, smart guidelines to survive and conquer at parties and receptions. The secret is: behave as a host, not a guest. The standard behaviour of a shy and withdrawn guest is often: wait, stand still and if there is no other option, give a short and awkward answer. A host's behaviour is: take the lead, introduce people, tackle problems, help out, connect and above all: begin. A good host

1. Takes initiative.
2. Greets the people as they enter.
3. Smiles at everyone.
4. Provides food and drink
5. Starts conversations
6. Looks for common ground
7. Connects.