
Getting better at something takes practice and training. Suddenly getting a lot better requires focused practice and corrected training. Great athletes or industrialists often use a coach. What are you waiting for. The English concept of a coach stems for a nineteenth century vehicle that you can travel in, but it is also the name of the man who sits on it and takes you where you are want to be. The coach knows the way, the dangers, the obstacles. He's already been at the destination and will take you there the fastest and easiest way. How do you choose him, the best coach? What does he look like? He doesn't look like a waiter. He does not bow and nod to all your wishes or to requests. On the contrary, it is someone who respects you and tells you the hard truth in a kind way. You admire him, you appreciate him, but he also inspires you some fear in you. He has all the attention for you. You are central. He gives you action-oriented, clear directions that you can use immediately. He is sincere without hurting you. It is never personal, but always relevant. It's a fundamentalist. He always brings everything back to the bare essence. He teaches you to change your basis and rebuild your skills and strengths. He is, if you have the choice, older than you are. A good coach must have had the time to learn his own lesson and to never have stopped learning. He is also someone who learns from you.