How can you accelerate your growth?

One of the pillars of a radiant existence is being surrounded by circle of great people. The main one being: you. Grow your greatness and those of others by:

1. Forgiving yourself. Many people are unnecessarily harsh or critical of themselves. Which is inconvenient, because the relationship with yourself is the most important one in your life. Forgive yourself for the things you don't do perfectly. And applaud yourself for the ones you do great. Realize that you do the best you can, given the current circumstances.

    

2. Forgiving others. Make a list of people who hurt or offended you. Forgive them in your head and in your heart. Write them a letter or an e-mail. Send it, or don’t. Even if they are no longer alive, it can help and heal. Look around for people you can ask for forgiveness. If it's important enough, look them up and ask them.

    

3. Forgiving in advance. You know people will hurt you in the future. This will happen intentionally or unintentionally, and you will find that forgiveness is a wonderfully liberating technique. Try it and experience it. Why not forgive in advance. Take or give an advance on your forgiveness. It costs nothing and it yields a lot.